tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post3023318079967224500..comments2023-09-29T03:53:06.900-05:00Comments on practical strawberry: giving tree??maryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16627680593366631585noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-10071154374519287552010-08-03T07:05:24.995-05:002010-08-03T07:05:24.995-05:00Monica just sent me the link to this post because ...Monica just sent me the link to this post because I just wrote my own take on the Giving Tree on Sunday. Here's the link if you care to read it. <br />http://www.3turkeys.net/2010/08/giving-tree.html<br />I absolutely agree with your review of these books. I don't own "I'll love you forever", but a friend got it as a baby gift and I thought it was sappy, to say the least. (I always thought it was a book on potty training, based on the cover)<br />Anyway, it's good to know I'm not the only "heartless" person in the world who things The Giving Tree is a bunch of crap.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10182372677196302433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-70679621321657143242009-10-28T11:52:10.604-05:002009-10-28T11:52:10.604-05:00I had to comment about "I'll love you For...I had to comment about "I'll love you Forever". That book TOTALLY creeps me out.What I cannot figure out is how anyone can read it, consider it "sweet" and not think that a Mom strapping a ladder to the top of her car, driving across town to climb in her grown son's window and rock him while he's asleep is JUST SO STINKIN WEIRD!!<br /><br />On another note, my 3.5 year old son and I were having a horrible time recently...he's was so disobedient and disrespectful that I didn't even like him most days. We've done some hard work on consistent consequences for bad behavior lately and have had a major turn around...hang in there!Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04567520065432118901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-75477148417018663282009-09-12T21:53:11.637-05:002009-09-12T21:53:11.637-05:00I don't remember being very fond of "The ...I don't remember being very fond of "The Giving Tree" - I'll have to go refresh myself now. But I do remember one of my younger sisters having the other one you mentioned, and thinking it was weird. <br /><br />But my favorite part of this entire post was "and although i know their hearts would have ached, i knew they were serious. maybe it was because they had eight kids, so a few of us were dispensable ; )" Awesome.pianomandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02645899909830518494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-89658015044930363762009-09-10T15:27:57.510-05:002009-09-10T15:27:57.510-05:00I love your posts. If in doubt, a picture of your...I love your posts. If in doubt, a picture of your cute kids will always be a crowd pleaser :)<br /><br />The Giving Tree was in a recent book order and I couldn't decide whether to buy it or not. I alwasy thought it was a bit boring...though easy to read for a young reader. It made me sad though I remember that. <br />I know what you mean about these new trendy mushy love books. There are so many more than there used to be. It begs the question: Do parents buy these books because they love their children more than in times past? Or is it because parents are busier these days and they need more tools to 'fill the gap' in the parent-love department?Erika Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11300241668251999609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-19549022254292527102009-09-09T22:17:37.823-05:002009-09-09T22:17:37.823-05:00reply to comments: garage sale gemma is cute, matt...reply to comments: garage sale gemma is cute, matt can have ben, and good job on streaking ira : )maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16627680593366631585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-43167280754843697692009-09-07T21:05:57.444-05:002009-09-07T21:05:57.444-05:00I TOTALLY agree about your review of the Giving Tr...I TOTALLY agree about your review of the Giving Tree. I have often thought when reading that book how SAD it is that the tree doesn't tell the boy that he's a selfish little turd! We don't read that one to Ira. I agree, the message it sends is a little ridiculous unless viewed as a God/sinner relationship. Great post! <br /><br /> We too learned L&L from Marcelline and in case you hadn't noticed, we have plenty of opportunities to "practice" it. (In fact, just today, Ira got to go to Grandma and Grandpa's in his underwear with his clothes in a bag.) It was a pretty proud parenting moment, let me tell you!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03440289717365062238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-79541316799389817562009-09-07T18:24:35.398-05:002009-09-07T18:24:35.398-05:00I never thought of The Giving Tree in any way othe...I never thought of The Giving Tree in any way other than an analogy for our relationship with God, but I can see it from your perspective as well. And I completely agree about the "helicopter parents" thing (I took the L&L class from your aunt when Melanie was 1 - very enlightening and we're just now getting to start to put it into practice) Treating our kids like that would be a disservice to them and anyone else that would come into their lives later on. <br /><br />And it's a good thing Matt didn't know you were selling boys for 25cents, or we might be +1 child now.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13699572769019233908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4116724020549974744.post-80625342048373042852009-09-07T12:48:53.144-05:002009-09-07T12:48:53.144-05:00I haven't read The Giving Tree in ages so I...I haven't read The Giving Tree in ages so I'll have to review it before I comment, b/c frankly I just don't remember the story well enough. However, I really like this post. A lot. I echo your sentiments. Well said.<br /><br />I have a picture in one of my albums on FB from summer of 2008 of Gemma with a garage sale price tag on her head (a la my hubby). The look on her face makes the pic especially priceless. Just FYI, check it out if you have the chance.Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11306810666140935903noreply@blogger.com