tim is so blessedly laid back that when i have gotten absolutely nothing done in a day and he comes in the door, he asks if i want subway for dinner instead of being annoyed i didn't cook. then when i beat myself up for everything i have failed to do, he says, "hey, you kept the boys alive. that's something."
but all in all, he's a pretty wonderful guy. and i've been told i'm not perfect either, so it all works out.